There's no doubt that holidays bring happiness and cheer – but for many of us, they also bring a lot of anxiety. The season can be overwhelming, from wondering what gift to buy to stressing about holiday gatherings. But why is it that holidays seem to cause so much stress? As it turns out, there are a few reasons. Let's take a closer look at some of them.
There's Often A Lot Of Pressure To Have The Perfect Holiday Celebration
With the expectation to create the perfect holiday celebration can come an enormous amount of pressure that can lead to feelings of distress and worry. This is especially true when it comes to hosting a holiday party or event; planning every detail correctly, ensuring that all guests have a good time, and managing all the tasks associated with hosting can be overwhelming for even the most seasoned host.
When these expectations become too much, it can cause anxiety in those who feel they must achieve perfection to make their event successful. This stress can manifest in many ways, such as difficulty sleeping, physical symptoms like nausea or headaches, difficulty concentrating, feeling irritable or overwhelmed, and racing thoughts about the upcoming event. It's important to recognize these signs early on so that you can take steps to alleviate this pressure before it becomes too overwhelming.
We Feel Pressure To Spend Money On Gifts, Decorations, And Food, Even If We Can't Afford Them
Financial stress can add to our holiday anxiety in a big way. With the pressure to spend money on gifts, decorations, and food - even if we can't afford it - many of us find ourselves in financial situations that can be difficult to manage.
The holidays are often associated with overspending and purchases that may only sometimes be within our budgets. This can lead to guilt and regret as we calculate what we spent, think about how much it cost us, or figure out how to pay for everything. We may also start comparing our spending habits with others, which can make us feel inadequate or embarrassed about our resources.
For some of us, this financial stress has more severe implications than just feeling overwhelmed by expenses; it could also affect our mental health in the long run. Various studies have identified financial worries as a significant source of psychological distress among people struggling economically. Research shows that lower-income people are more likely to experience anxiety and depression due to their finances than those who earn higher wages. Worse, this holiday season could exacerbate existing mental health issues due to feeling like you don't have enough money for gifts or decorations.
We must remember that the holidays should be about connection and meaningful relationships rather than material possessions or expensive experiences. Whether this means setting reasonable budget goals for yourself or simply prioritizing quality time with loved ones over lavish gifts and meals, there are meaningful ways to enjoy the holidays without breaking your bank account.
The Holidays Can Be A Lonely Time For People Who Are Away From Their Loved Ones Or Who Don't Have Anyone To Celebrate With
The holidays can be particularly lonely for those who are away from their families or don't have anyone to celebrate with. This can lead to increased stress and anxiety levels, as it is assumed that family and friends will surround everyone during this festive season. This can heighten feelings of isolation and exclusion, especially when scrolling through social media feeds filled with family gatherings, holiday parties, and special gifts exchanged between loved ones.
Though these feelings of loneliness may be amplified during the holiday season, they are still experienced by many people throughout the year. This can be due to various factors, such as physical distance from family, strained relationships, or simply not having anyone to connect with. Whatever the underlying cause, it can feel not easy to engage yourself in the festivities surrounding this time of year.
We Have To Deal With Family Members Who Drive Us Crazy Year-Round But Seem To Multiply During The Holidays
Dealing with family can be difficult, especially during the holidays. We all have that one family member who is hard to get along with and stirs up drama and tension in the home. This can be even more challenging during the holiday season as we are surrounded by family members, making it difficult to avoid them or their behavior. This can lead to feelings of anxiety and stress, which can put a damper on the holiday spirit. Negative family dynamics can quickly take the fun out of a festive gathering, whether it's an aunt who always has something to criticize or a cousin who never stops making snarky comments.
Navigating these types of relationships during the holidays can be incredibly challenging because emotions tend to run high quickly. During the holiday season, families come together more frequently than they may typically, which can be a recipe for disaster if underlying issues and tensions between certain relatives have yet to be addressed beforehand.
Unresolved grievances and misguided attempts at making conversation can lead to arguments that cast a shadow over what should be joyful occasions. And when faced with family members who have strong opinions about how you should live your life or disagree about politics or religion, it's easy to become overwhelmed by their judgments and criticism.
The holidays can be stressful for many of us, but it doesn't have to be that way. By understanding some of the reasons behind our holiday stress, we can take steps to reduce it. And remember, if you're feeling overwhelmed, there's no shame in taking a step back and simplifying your holiday season. What are some of the things you do to reduce your holiday stress? Please share them with us in the comments below!